I often tell our dojo members that particularly in this day and age, what we practice should improve our lives. It should neither be our lives nor drag us down. Family, school, career, a balanced lifestyle with good relationships should always come first. Otherwise, honestly, what are we learning to defend?
We have had people that left when life stepped in, but came back later. We have had people who left and never returned. Some of the ones who never came back, we still keep in touch with on a human level. I never try to convince someone to hang around, nor do I think what we do is any better than any other budo or pastime one may pursue. Whenever we have visitors interested in trying a martial art, in addition to our group I give them a laundry list of other area dojo they may want to look into. We’re not the only ones with something to offer.
The reality is that more people will quit a martial art, for whatever reason, than those who will stay. Those committed to pass on a ryu are less than few and far between. I never try to convince people to stay, but offer that should they care to return we will be here. And most of the time it won’t even be the same crew they left; it’s recently occurred that a returning student didn’t know anyone he’d started with, and he only stopped two years ago.
Because I know statistically they’re more likely to quit than stay forever, I don’t want any of our people to feel bad about it. Life happens. People change. And should they decide to move on, I repeat the mantra: What we practice should improve our lives. I don’t want anyone feeling bad or drug down with feelings of inadequacy or non-loyalty should they decide to enhance their lives in other ways. We should all feel good about our life’s choices.
As the first line of our website states, we value good character and community relations as much as, if not more than, technical ability. Just because someone re-prioritizes dojo time off of their to-do list does not mean we can no longer be friends who check in on each other. And sometimes it happens that karate simply isn’t for them, but say aikido is. Or boxing. Judo. Or another style of karate, etc. Thus is why I keep up a reference list of other quality dojo with quality people.
Because we only meet once a week, we also have students who are active members of other clubs. One currently practices aikido, another arnis, we have an MMA fighter who trains at a gym during the week. Other members have past experiences in various arts they’d moved on from, for whatever reason. One member’s teacher had retired, another practiced in Japan, someone else had relocated and left their teacher in another state. I am very encouraging of such diversity in the dojo; my only caveat is for beginners who have no base in anything. Best to develop a base before mixing it up, so I recommend they either stick with us exclusively for a while, or come back after they’ve developed a foundation elsewhere so as to avoid confusion.
My teacher is a commercial printer by trade. He does not make a living off of karate. I think my approach was imbued with the way he continues to run his program, which I’d still be a part of had I not relocated out-of-state. When I first met him I observed from the side because I was too stubborn to get on the floor. I wanted a bird’s-eye view. One thing that impressed me above all was how well everyone at the dojo got along. They had good technique, but I was really taken by the character of the group and how welcoming they were to me as a visitor. When class was over, my soon-to-be sensei came up and said, “So, this is what we do. I’m going to get changed and some of us are going to grab a bowl of noodles, you’re welcome to join us.” No questions, no what did I think, no convincing, no contracts pushed in front of me. “This is what we do.”
At his dojo, from time to time we’d have visiting judo sensei, Shotokan sensei, Goju-ryu sensei, Wing Chun sifu, as well as high level teachers of our own system, including Takayoshi Nagamine – the lineal head of our ryu – who would stay at my sensei’s home for weeks at a time during his visits. These visits were all meant to inform our training and experience with Matsubayashi-ryu, not change, convert, or to develop a new style. We were to take them all as learning experiences and my sensei had no insecurities of anyone “stealing” his students or recruiting us to another art form. Another thing he used to say is, “We are all here of our own accord and just as I have opened that door for you to walk in, the door swings both ways – I also leave it open for you to walk out.”
I don’t make a living from karate either. I have a day job, a family, and varied interests and hobbies outside of budo. Because I know what a strain karate can be on someone’s lifestyle, I don’t fault anyone for moving on. Unless they’re intent on advancing, I don’t even fault people for not practicing on off-days. One of our members is straight-up about his non-practice schedule: “I don’t practice karate outside of Mondays,” he once said. “I don’t know, I have a lot of other things going on and just don’t think about it.” For some reason it made me laugh, then he laughed, and we continue to laugh about it to this day. He remains a wonderful addition to our group and I thank him for showing up every session.
I hope what we do enhances the lives of whoever chooses to walk through our door. But if it becomes a drag, hey, that door swings both ways and it’s okay. I guess I’m so used to hearing so much about how much martial arts practice benefits lives, I wanted to put something out there that speaks to the other side. If it comes to a point that what we do no longer benefits your life, don’t hesitate to walk away. It’s not a job, we can still be friends. And if you change your mind later, we’ll be here.
At the invitation of Scott Schnell-sensei (WMKA 4-dan, Pinewoods Okinawan Karate Dojo), from 6/23-6/25 a group of us took a weekend road trip to North Central Ohio for training with Yuichi Danjo-sensei (WMKA 7-dan, Kodokan Osaka Dojo) and Art Ishii-sensei (WMKA 6-dan, Matsubayashi Shorin-ryu of Little Tokyo). Additionally, members of Seishin Karate Club in Columbus met up for training as well!
Schnell-sensei was a most generous host, patiently providing the necessary Japanese language translation, and Jen was a wonderful cook & grill master! All in all it was a fun weekend of learning and camaraderie. Ravenswood Dojo members who made the trip were: Angel, Collin, Kevin, Mason, Derrick, and Erik.
Great interview with our good friend Dwight Sora, manager of Chicago Aikido Club, in Voyage Chicago. We have done goodwill exchange trainings with CAC in the past. Check it out!
Members of the dojo recently supported the Sansei Yonsei Athletic Association (SYAA) Basketball Clinic’s Annual Aloha Breakfast fundraiser! A Hawaii-style breakfast of Portuguese Sausage, Eggs, Rice, Spam, Sunomono, and Aloha Spirit were served on Saturday, May 13, from 9am-1pm.
Proceeds from the breakfast went toward gym upkeep and keeping the basketball clinic free for its youth participants, ages 4 thru 18. More about SYAA can be found here:
83-year old Nisei Okinawan Argentinian Horacio Higa sensei, WMKA 7th Dan, featured on Buenos Aires television.
Higa sensei, born in Buenos Aires in 1933, is a student of Shigehide Akamine sensei and operates the Ken Zen Dojo in San Isidro.
Higa sensei states that he has been practicing karate for 45-years, which would put his start at 38-years of age. It’s never too late to start something new!